It is with an overwhelming sense of sadness and loss that we announce the unexpected passing of Thomas A. Fox Jr., affectionately known to all as Tommy. On March 16, 2025, Tommy left us too soon, leaving behind a deep void in the lives of his family, friends, and the countless people he touched throughout his life. Tommy was much more than a friend, a neighbor, or a family member—he was a beacon of light, joy, and support to everyone who knew him. His infectious laughter, kind heart, and unwavering loyalty made him someone everyone could rely on, and his absence will be deeply felt for years to come.
Tommy’s life was a testament to the power of kindness, generosity, and love. Whether he was serving in the Army, helping a friend in need, or simply spending time with his family, Tommy gave his all to everyone around him. His commitment to service and to those he loved was unshakeable, and it’s that dedication and warmth that will be remembered and cherished by all who had the honor of knowing him.
Tommy’s journey began in Whitman, MA, where he grew up surrounded by family and friends who came to know him as a loyal, dependable, and caring individual. From a young age, Tommy showed a fierce determination and a passion for helping others. He later joined the Army, where he continued to serve his country with pride and honor. His time in the military was marked by his deep sense of duty, discipline, and his desire to make a positive impact on those around him. Tommy’s fellow soldiers will remember him as someone who was always ready to lend a helping hand, someone whose leadership and compassion shone through even in the most challenging situations.
But it wasn’t just in his professional life that Tommy made a difference—he brought the same level of dedication, enthusiasm, and joy to his personal life. Tommy’s laughter was contagious, and his ability to lift the spirits of those around him was unparalleled. Whether he was telling jokes, sharing stories, or simply offering a listening ear, Tommy had a unique ability to make everyone feel at ease. His presence was a source of comfort and encouragement, and he had a remarkable way of making those around him feel valued and appreciated.
Tommy’s family, in particular, was the center of his world. He loved his family deeply and found joy in spending time with them. Whether it was a simple family gathering, a special holiday, or just a quiet moment together, Tommy’s love for his family was evident in everything he did. His warmth, generosity, and unwavering support made him a beloved figure in the lives of his parents, siblings, children, and extended family. Tommy was the type of person who always put others first, and his selflessness was felt by everyone who knew him.
Beyond his immediate family, Tommy was a pillar of support to his friends and community. He was the type of person who always showed up when needed, whether it was to lend a hand with a home project, offer advice during tough times, or simply be there to share a moment of laughter. Tommy’s kindness knew no bounds, and he went out of his way to make sure that the people around him were taken care of. His friendships were built on trust, mutual respect, and an unwavering bond that made him someone you could count on, no matter the circumstance.
Tommy’s service to others didn’t stop with his family and friends—he also made an impact in the broader community. Whether through his time in the Army or in his civilian life, Tommy was always looking for ways to help others. He volunteered for various causes and was always willing to lend his time and energy to those in need. His contributions to his community were many, but perhaps most importantly, Tommy’s kindness and willingness to give selflessly left an indelible mark on everyone he encountered.
It is impossible to overstate how much Tommy’s presence meant to those who were fortunate enough to know him. His generosity, compassion, and sense of humor made him someone who was loved by all. His legacy will live on in the hearts of his family, friends, and all those whose lives were touched by his kindness and spirit.
While we are deeply saddened by his unexpected passing, we take comfort in knowing that Tommy’s life was one that was lived to the fullest. He embraced every moment with an open heart and an infectious joy, and he never hesitated to make those around him feel special. His love for life, his family, and his friends was boundless, and it’s that love that we will continue to carry with us as we honor his memory.
As we navigate this difficult time, we invite everyone who can to contribute to the mounting final expenses in honor of this incredible man. Tommy would have been the first to offer his help to someone in need, and it is in his spirit that we come together to support his family during this challenging time. Any contribution, no matter how big or small, will serve as a tribute to Tommy’s memory and his lifelong commitment to service and kindness.
In addition to his generosity and sense of humor, Tommy’s legacy is one of resilience. Life was not always easy, but Tommy faced every challenge with a sense of determination and courage that inspired those around him. Even when faced with difficult circumstances, he never lost sight of the importance of family, friendship, and living life with a positive outlook. His ability to persevere through adversity is something that will continue to inspire all of us who knew him.
Tommy’s passing is a reminder of the preciousness of life and the importance of cherishing the moments we have with our loved ones. As we mourn his loss, we also celebrate the incredible person he was and the profound impact he had on so many lives. Tommy’s legacy will continue to live on through the stories we share, the lessons we’ve learned from him, and the love that he gave so freely.
To Tommy’s family, friends, and loved ones, we offer our deepest condolences. We know that words cannot fully capture the depth of the loss you are feeling, but please know that you are not alone in this grief. Tommy’s spirit lives on in all of us, and we will continue to honor him by carrying forward the values he held dear—kindness, generosity, and an unwavering commitment to those we love.
Rest in peace, Tommy. You were loved by so many, and you will be deeply missed. Your memory will forever be cherished in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing you. Thank you for the joy, the laughter, and the love you brought into our lives. Forever in our hearts.
