A tragic and heart-wrenching loss occurred late Thursday night, when R’ Eliyahu Fink Z”L, a 43-year-old father of three from Monsey, New York, was struck and killed on the Garden State Parkway. The unexpected death of R’ Eliyahu has left his family, friends, and the entire community in mourning, as they come to terms with the loss of a man who was deeply committed to his faith, family, and community.
R’ Eliyahu was the son of Rabbi Aharon Fink, a well-respected mohel and the founder of Ateres Bais Yaakov, an institution that Rabbi Aharon established 25 years ago. Rabbi Aharon’s influence in the community is immense, and R’ Eliyahu followed in his father’s footsteps, embracing the values and teachings that had been passed down to him. In every aspect of his life, R’ Eliyahu was known for his deep humility, his kindness, and his unwavering faith. He was a beloved member of the Monsey community, admired for his character and his constant desire to help others.
The fatal accident occurred just before 1 a.m. on Friday morning, when R’ Eliyahu was struck while walking on the northbound lanes of the Garden State Parkway near milepost 146.5 in Essex County, New Jersey. New Jersey State Police responded to the scene and found R’ Eliyahu gravely injured and unresponsive in the roadway. Despite the efforts of emergency responders, he was tragically pronounced dead at the scene.
Preliminary investigations suggest that R’ Eliyahu had been involved in a minor car accident just moments before the fatal collision. He had reportedly exited his vehicle after a fender-bender when he was struck by at least two vehicles traveling northbound. Both drivers involved in the second accident remained at the scene and have been fully cooperative with authorities as the investigation continues. The cause of the tragic incident is still under investigation, and further details are awaited.
R’ Eliyahu’s untimely passing has sent shockwaves through the community, leaving those who knew him deeply affected. A devoted father to three young children, R’ Eliyahu’s death has left an irreplaceable void in the lives of his family, particularly his children, who will now have to navigate life without his loving guidance. His role as a father was one of deep devotion, and his children will forever miss his wisdom, love, and nurturing presence. His loss is deeply felt by his friends, family, and all those who had the privilege of knowing him.
Throughout his life, R’ Eliyahu was known for his selflessness, generosity, and dedication to his faith. Whether through his charitable work, his involvement in community projects, or his everyday interactions, R’ Eliyahu always put others first. His kind and giving nature made him a pillar of support for many, and he was frequently sought after for advice and guidance, both spiritual and practical. His love for his community was boundless, and he dedicated his time and energy to helping others in any way he could.
R’ Eliyahu was also known for his deep involvement in religious life, always eager to support his community and offer his assistance whenever possible. His faith was central to who he was, and he was always ready to help others deepen their own spiritual connections. His family has shared that R’ Eliyahu was a constant source of support to those in need, offering not only practical help but also emotional and spiritual guidance in both joyous and sorrowful times.
In the wake of this tragedy, the Monsey community has come together, united in grief and offering their support to the Fink family. Friends, colleagues, and acquaintances have shared countless stories about R’ Eliyahu, remembering him as a man who lived his life with integrity, kindness, and deep faith. Whether in his professional life, through his charitable acts, or in personal relationships, R’ Eliyahu’s influence was felt by many. His memory will continue to be cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
R’ Eliyahu’s death serves as a stark reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing every moment we have. It is a reminder of how quickly things can change, and how important it is to prioritize what matters most—faith, family, and community. His passing has led many to reflect on their own lives, to reassess their priorities, and to focus on what truly matters: the people they love and the values they hold dear.
In keeping with Jewish tradition, R’ Eliyahu’s levaya (funeral) will be held on Sunday in Monsey, where friends, family, and community members will gather to honor his memory and pay their respects. As funeral arrangements are finalized, the Fink family continues to be surrounded by the support of the community, which has come together to provide comfort during this incredibly difficult time.
Though the shock and sadness are overwhelming, R’ Eliyahu’s legacy will live on through his family, his children, and the many lives he touched. His impact on his community will continue to resonate for years to come. As the investigation unfolds and more details emerge, the Fink family takes solace in knowing they are not alone in their grief, and that R’ Eliyahu’s memory will always be a blessing.
R’ Eliyahu Fink Z”L leaves behind an enduring legacy, one that will continue to inspire those who knew him. He was a man of great faith, great character, and immense devotion to his family and community. His sudden and tragic passing has left an irreplaceable void, but it has also united the community in mourning and remembrance. The way he lived his life—through acts of kindness, service, and faith—will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
In the days and weeks ahead, the community will continue to honor R’ Eliyahu’s memory by living according to the values he exemplified—through kindness, charity, and faith. Though he is no longer physically with us, his spirit will continue to guide and inspire. His loss is heartbreaking, but his legacy of devotion to his family, his faith, and his community will continue to have a profound impact for generations to come.
